Memo to My Absent Dad- A Heartfelt Letter of Healing and Reflection

by liuqiyue

A Letter to My Dad Who Abandoned Me

Dear Dad,

I have been meaning to write this letter for a long time, but it has always been difficult to put my thoughts into words. I wanted to express my feelings and thoughts about the fact that you abandoned me. I know that this is a sensitive topic, and I hope that you will read this letter with an open mind.

When I was a child, I never understood why you left us. I remember the day you packed your bags and left without a word. I was only five years old, and I was too young to comprehend the complexities of life. All I knew was that I had lost my dad, and it hurt deeply.

Over the years, I have struggled with feelings of abandonment and loneliness. I often wondered why you chose to leave me behind. I have tried to understand your reasons, but I can’t seem to find any justification for your actions. I know that you had your own struggles and challenges, but I can’t help but feel that I was an inconvenience to you.

I have had to grow up faster than most kids my age. I had to learn to rely on myself and my mother for everything. I have had to deal with the pain of not having a father figure in my life. It has been a difficult journey, but I have managed to find a way to cope.

Even though you are not present in my life, I still have memories of you. I remember the times we spent together, playing catch in the park and watching movies at night. I remember the way you would make me laugh and the comfort you would give me when I was sad. Those memories are precious to me, and they have helped me through the tough times.

I want you to know that I have forgiven you for leaving me. I understand that you had your reasons, and I can’t hold it against you. I hope that one day you will be able to find peace and happiness in your own life. I also hope that you will consider reconnecting with me. I would love to get to know you as an adult and understand the man you have become.

As I continue to grow and face life’s challenges, I will always carry the pain of your absence. But I will also carry the love and memories that you gave me. I hope that you can find it in your heart to forgive yourself for the choices you made and to give me a chance to heal and move forward.

Thank you for reading this letter. I hope that it brings us closer, even if it is just in spirit. I love you, Dad.

Sincerely,
[Your Name]

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